I'm always looking for a reason if BM is being nice and cordial. I'm always thinking she's up to something. Just generic, given her behavior to us over the past few years.
But sometimes, I think SD goes and does shit on purpose to make her mother hate me. Yesterday, BM told SD that she was going to pick them up from school. I told SD that I put her clothes out from her Mom's and that she needed to either make sure she brought back what she wore over there or she needed to wear those clothes. She told me she was going to wear those clothes. I go to work, DH goes to work. All is good.
About a year ago, I was going through some of my clothes and getting rid of things. Well SD and BD went through the stack and picked out a few things. SD begged me for this ridiculously oversized Jager shirt from the Staind tour I went to several years ago. I gave it to her, and specifically told her that she could wear it as a nightshirt but she was NOT to wear it to school.
What does the kid do? She wore it to school yesterday. Of course, the SECOND she gets in her Mom's car, her Mom sends a text to DH "Why is SD wearing a Jager shirt???" and DH responds "I have no idea, when I left this morning she was still in her PJ's."
Guess who's getting blamed for that shit now? Yup..me. What the fuck ever dude, I mean, if it makes her feel so much better to make me out to be this giant bitch, more power to her, but still. SD isn't the type of kid that just forgets shit like that. She KNEW damn well that her mother would pitch a fit about the shirt. She KNEW damn well that her mother was picking her up from school. And I'm going to tell her as much this evening when I get home as well. And I'm going to make the comment that she may think I am stupid when it comes to this stuff, but I'm not. I try to stay out of the way as much as possible and if she's going to continue to make bad decisions, then she's going to continue to not be trusted.
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